How To Deal With A Nagging Wife

Nagging comes in stages. At first, a wife's complaints are usually introduced with respect. She lets her husband know that she is not happy about a particular decision or things that he does, then when the husband pays less attention to her demand, then the nagging starts.

A nagging wife has the tendency to drive her husband out of the house. Also a man who doesn't listen has the tendency to turn the woman into a nag. Lets start like this, are you married to a nagging wife? does your husband ever accuse you of being a nagging wife? What ever your answer is, there is a simple way to over come that problem in your marriage before it destroy's your home. But it will take the cooperation of both parties to make this work.

I am not a marriage counselor but life experiences especially from my parents has taught me a lot. As a broadcaster, i talk to people a lot and here is what i always tell any man who complain their wife is a nag and also to every woman who complains her husband makes her nag.
Now here it goes, the simple truth is that as a wife, you need to put an end to demands, disrespect and anger whenever a conflict with your husband arises. One thing i have been guilty of is bringing up mistakes of the past. This is totally wrong, you have to let go of what happened in the past and focus on the problem at hand.

Wife you need to give your husband the opportunity to discuss the problem with respect. Your husband should have the right to raise issues with you without you becoming disrespectful or angry with him. Bottom line is that discuss the problem with your husband.

As husband, this is the most important and it can drive a woman crazy if you don't do it- Address every complaint your wife makes with patience and kindness. Listen to her. I know sometimes women we have so many issues that can be overwhelming, this is where you act as the man. Organize them together and set priorities. Focus on the three that top her list.

When a couple fail to resolve their conflicts the right way, conflicts tend to pile up, resentment also. In marriages like this, couples lose hope that there can ever be peace. But when a couple starts to attack the pile with mutual thoughtfulness, the very fact that progress is being made restores their hope. Resolve the conflict and this will eliminate the nagging.

There is also a simple rule that i read one time from a marriage expert Willard Harley and he calls it the Policy of Joint Agreement which means never do anything without an enthusiastic agreement between you and your spouse. If a husband and wife follows this rule, neither of them will get upset at each other. They stop living their lives as if the other doesn't exist and start being thoughtful of each other when they are tempted to be thoughtless.

See one thing that kills relationship or marriage is trying to force your own perspective on your partner. If you follow this rule, you will focus on the other person's perspective so that at the end, you guys will come together and think of a unified way to satisfy both points of view.
Lets stop being selfish and make your marriage and relationship work out.