Sometimes
issues you have dealt with come up again, prompting a revisit. I know about a mother who stopped her son from getting
married to his fiancée because both of them carry the AS genotype which can
lead to giving birth to children with sickle cell anaemia.
You
would think that with the wide-spread awareness and knowledge about this
condition, young people preparing for marriage will take all the necessary
precautions, but no, love is a cloudy weather, so they do not see clearly; they
want to plunge into matrimony anyhow and worry about the consequences later.
That is my experience in the past couple of weeks.
You
hear arguments like: “We are worshiping a living God; he will not allow us
give birth to sicklers.” I admire this mountain-moving faith. But my genre of
faith is: if you are in a house that is collapsing, you thank God for giving
you the eyes to see and legs to run and run for your dear life. You do not sit
tight and challenge God, reminding Him about how he divided the Red Sea into
two; therefore, he should stop the building from collapse. For me that is
foolhardiness.
Another
common argument is that modern medicine will enable them to know if the fetus
carries the defective gene during pregnancy and if so terminate the pregnancy.
Just like that; terminate the life of your unborn child. How many are you going
to terminate? And if your parents had terminated your pregnancy, will you be
here planning to terminate that of your unborn children. You are pampering a
problem that should not arise in the first place.
The
last argument I hear is that they will not give birth to children, rather they
will adopt. This is easier said than done. Adoption, in this part of the world,
is not widespread and the last option for many childless couples. If couples
know they have the capacity to have biological children, the temptation will
always be there to try.
I
feel young people should face the harsh reality. I have told my children who
have the AS genotype, young as they are, that when they are old enough to date
and get married, they must know the genotype of their partners before the
relationship gets serious. I do not want to hear excuses that “dad, we are too
deep in love to part ways now.”
They
might have the final say on who they get married to, but they will not get my
parental nod/ blessing, neither will I take part in their wedding if the
would-be spouse, like them, carries the AS genotype. It is immoral to
deliberately bring a fellow human being into this world to go through the pains
I see SCD patients experience. It is excruciating even for you just watching
them agonise in pains. And when a loved one is involved, the helplessness you
feel worsens your agony.
I
have lost in laws and relatives to complications resulting from SCD. It is
senseless going ahead to get married when both parties know they are carriers
(AS). Youths need to be properly tutored at home, in schools, churches and
mosques about the challenges associated with the AS/AS combination. We can excuse
the ignorance of our forebears, but that is no longer tenable.
Theoretically,
the chances of AS/AS parents giving birth to a child with SCD is one in four
children ( AA, AS, AS and SS), but the reality is different. I have seen a
family of five with no SCD sufferer, a family of three with two and a family of
four with two sufferers. My point is that there is no need to gamble; yes, that
is what it is, because it is not within your control.
Here,
the clichĂ© that “prevention is better than cure” is golden. Ultimately, I feel
we should work towards a sickle cell anaemia-free society. It is possible.
For
the benefit of those who might not be aware, “Sickle-cell disease (SCD), also
known as sickle-cell anaemia (SCA) and drepanocytosis, is a hereditary blood
disorder, characterized by an abnormality in the oxygen-carrying haemoglobin
molecule in red blood cells” (Wikipedia). It is a condition where there is
shortage of healthy red blood cells to carry adequate oxygen throughout the
body. Usually, red blood cells are flexible and round, moving easily through
the blood vessels. But in sickle cell anaemia sufferers, the red blood cells
are shaped like sickles or crescent moons and become rigid and sticky.
These
irregularly shaped cells can get stuck in small blood vessels, which can slow
or block blood flow and oxygen to parts of the body, causing enormous pains to
the sufferer. It can also harm organs, muscles, and bones.
Sickle
cell anaemia is common among people of African descent. Three quarters of
sickle cell anaemia cases in the world occur in Africa. The World Health Organization estimates that two per cent of these cases are in Nigeria. There’s
no cure for most people with sickle cell anaemia. However, treatments can
relieve pain and help prevent further problems associated with SCA.
Francies Ewherido
Francies Ewherido
Francies Ewherido
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If we let our heads rule over our hearts this generation can stop...in the nearest future.. needless deaths due to SCD
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