8 Steps on how to kiss

Stumbled across this mail and i needed to share it. For those who are trying to learn how to kiss

your spouse or don't even know what it takes to kiss your spouse passionately, here are some tips. 

1. Are You Ready?

Before I show you how to kiss your guy, you first need to do a small bit of prep work. I'm not talking about studying up on the ancient masters of kissing. I'm talking about making sure that you are looking your most kissable!

This means that you need to use a good lip balm so that your lips are soft and definitely not chapped! While wearing lipstick will certainly make your lips look more enticing and attractive, it's often a bad choice as it ends up leaving marks all over your man when you do kiss him as well as getting smudged all over your mouth...not the most attractive thing.

2. Look To Initiate

 Subtly let your man know exactly what's on your mind. While you are talking to him, stop focusing

so much on his eyes and face and start paying more attention to his lips. The most effective way to do this is by glancing down to his lips every once in a while, for just a few seconds mid-conversation. He may not notice you doing this at first, but after a minute or two, most guys will realize exactly what's going on.

Slow your talking speed right down the more you do it, as well as leaning in slightly closer to your man, and you can almost be guaranteed that your man knows "what's up".

If he is keen to start kissing you, then he will copy what you are doing: he'll lean in, he'll slow down his conversation, and he may also start glancing at your lips, too. If he does any of this, then you can be almost positive that he wants to kiss you.

3. Start Softly, Very Softly

When he does eventually move in to kiss you, or you move in to kiss him, start slowly. Gently purse your lips and as softly and gently as you can, and massage his lips between yours. Start with his bottom lip and then move to his top lip.

4. Squeeze It

After gently massaging his lips for a while, you can change direction a little bit. Start to get a tiny bit more aggressive and instead of massaging his lips between yours, squeeze them. Now there's no need to try and crush his lips with as much force as possible. Just use enough to show him that you are passionate.

5. Nibble It

Using your teeth while kissing your man is straightforward. Think about it as if you are softly nibbling on his lips. You can squeeze his top lip or bottom lip between your teeth and you can also run your teeth slowly over his lips for a different sensation.

6. Tilt & Turn

Something that many women sometimes forget is that they may be only focusing on one side of their man's face. Because you can't kiss your man head on, you obviously need to tilt your head to one side of his face. When you do this, you will be a lot more comfortable and can really start enjoying yourself...but don't make the mistake of neglecting the other side of his face! Every once in a while, make sure to change your head position so that it's tilted to the other side.

7. Let Him Kiss You

When learning how to kiss a guy, students often fall into the trap of thinking that they need to do all the work. You don't. You should be doing 50% of the work or even less, unless of course you enjoy being the dominant one. Let your man take over and be the one who leads the kiss if you like.

8. More Than His Lips

Figuring out how to kiss your man often leads students to only focus on his lips. If you do, then you are missing out on all the other sensitive erogenous zones on his body that are super pleasurable to have kissed. So, if you are getting tired or bored of just focusing on his lips, kiss him on the cheek.

If that's not enough for you, then bury your head in his neck and start kissing, sucking, massaging, and nibbling him there.

If you want another thing to focus on, try very softly licking and kissing his ear.

Hope these points will be helpful to someone out there