Most ladies get it wrong sometimes, they find it out to distinguish if he is in for sex and in for a good relationship. Here is a list of things to look out for in order to detect his intentions.
1. You never meet his friends. The less information you have about him, the easier it is for him to ghost you. If you don't know who he hangs out with, or where he lives, or what his last name is, he can disappear like a phantom into the night. A phantom who banged you a bunch of times and then stopped answering texts, which would make for a shittier Broadway play than the kind of phantom that hangs out in operas.
1. You never meet his friends. The less information you have about him, the easier it is for him to ghost you. If you don't know who he hangs out with, or where he lives, or what his last name is, he can disappear like a phantom into the night. A phantom who banged you a bunch of times and then stopped answering texts, which would make for a shittier Broadway play than the kind of phantom that hangs out in operas.
2. He
makes it really hard for you to sleep over. He never straight-up says you
have to leave because he always has a "thing" really early the next
morning. A "thing with friends" or "a work thing" or
"some family thing."
3. He
always hands you everything before you leave. Did you forget your bra? Some
lipstick? Your purse? A single bobby pin? If you never forget anything there,
you can never have an excuse to show up when he doesn't want you to.
4. You've
never been on a real date. Dates are for men who consider themselves
boyfriends, not men who consider themselves sex buddies.
5. He
always insists on splitting the cost of items. Whenever you go out or buys
something, he always ask you to pay half of the price. He is always not with
complete money.
6. He's
"busy" whenever you text him about something personal or emotional. Who has time to leave
watching football or gisting with friends to talk to you about things like how
you feel? If your text about your grandma passing away isn't attached to a sexy
picture, he won't even bother opening it.
7. He
always tries to initiate sex when you hang out. An easy way to tell the
difference between guys who like having sex with you a lot and guys who only like
having sex with you is this: Think back to a time when the two of you were
together but weren't having sex for more than an hour. If you can't do that, he
only wants you for sex.
8. Every
conversation turns flirty/sexual. Every time you talk or text, it immediately turns
into a conversation about having sex. He's stopped even trying to be witty
about it. "Oh, you're on your bed right now? I would love to kiss you,
take off your clothes...’’
9. He
only compliments your looks. He loves your ass but not your sense of humor. You
always look "hot" but never "gorgeous." If his compliments
are superficial at best and gross at worst, he's Just Not That Into You Starring
Justin Long and Scarlett Johansson and Jennifer Aniston and Ben Affleck and
That Chick From Once Upon a Time.
10. When
he comes over, he heads straight for the bedroom. There's no loitering in the
kitchen or hanging out in the living room with this guy. He has streamlined the
process of sex-having by eliminating or minimizing the chitchat or talk about
your day.
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