Thursday, 10 July 2014

Tests To Determine If He’s Mr. Right

There comes a time in a woman's life where she tends to ask herself some very important questions. Questions like- Does he love me? Is he the one? Are we going to tie the knot?
 I discovered a few test which will help out to determine if he is really the one...ladies, lets try it out and if it works, Bravo..


1 - The Mr. Right Test #1: Enter into correct fight with him
 
You can tell just about everything you need to know about a person by the way they fight. You simply do not know someone until you’ve had a fight with them. There is a saying that a relationship is only as good as its first fight. People go crazy when they fight and what as a woman you want to know about your man is how crazzzzzzyyyy he can go. I once had an argument with my man that almost turned out to a very big fight. I was pushing his button to see how far he can go, but he just kept on shouting and then decided to keep  quiet. The thing pain me sha because i needed to see how crazy he can go. But i still feel i need to push him more. But its not just how crazy he can go alone but also how long he can go in arguing with you.

If in the heat of a real argument your man does a pretty good job of sticking to the point, and not being hostile or if he actually listens to the things you’re saying, that’s a beautiful sign. But if he goes vicious, or starts attacking you personally by going after weaknesses that in love you’ve shared with him before, or (God forbid) gets in any way physical, that, too is a sign. A “Wrong Way” sign.

2 - The Mr. Right Test #2: Go away with him for a week or two
 
Some people are so blessed in faking things for a very long time. But trust me when you spend a week or two with him, walai his true identity will be revealed. It will be like you are dragging Dracula outside at high noon. You will discover a lot about him you never knew existed. And how he treats you during your time together will definitely matter and give you a sign. Sign number 2

3 - The Mr. Right Test #3: Have him care for you when you’re really sick
One of the reasons men love women so much is because women are just so darn pretty. if i hear say na lie!! Well, ladies get ugly around your man for a change, and see how that works for you. Get very ugly- wipe your nose on your sleeve...wait...on his sleeves, dress anyhow, cough without etiquette, keep your hair matted up like Iya..inshort just be UGLY. Then check out how he behaves. When in sickness, see how easily he can assume the role of your loving mother. If he cant...then my mouth is closed. Na only you know wetin you go do.

4 - The Mr. Right Test #4: Watch how he plays with other women
 
Kai, this one is very very important. See, men flirt we know that and so do women too, but as soon as the both of you have committed to being together, all other flirting should stop. When the two of you go to a party together, just leave him for some minutes and go do something else. But watch him from afar. If you notice his behavior with any lady that sends a wrong message, i think its okay to walk up to him and tell him how his flirting with other girls hurts your feelings, how it  makes you look like a fool, and embarrasses you before your friends. If he sees and understands the truth of that, and sincerely agrees to full-on stop flirting with other women, that’s great. But if, knowing how it does and must make you feel, he gives excuses and continues to flirt with other women, then he’s being very clear about not only who he is, but about whom he expects you to be or become.

5 - The Mr. Right Test #5: Watch how he treats service personnel

A man's character is revealed by how he treats service personnel like waiters, doormen, maids, cleaners, store clerks etc. If he treats them in a condescending manner then be rest assured that he is going to treat you that way.
It’s just not possible for a man who doesn’t treat everyone with respect to respect you. It’s a symptom of a problem he has that you’re not going to be able to fix. Get out right away, or go down trying.

Well, these are the few test i know. I am also asking myself if he is the one? Trying these test on him though, so far...he don try. so lets see how it goes...

 http://www.patheos.com/blogs/johnshore/2007/11/six-tests-to-determe-if-hes-mr-right/


2 comments:

Unknown said...

Nice one...tnx for d info

princessuvbi said...

Thank you babe

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